Hi, I am Jelena (Yellenah. Never Jelly)

I have pieces of paper proving I know things: ILM Certificate in Coaching, Empowerment Self Defence Trainer Certificate, Masters Degree in General Psychology, PgCert in Research Methods, PhD in Education, Best Short Story prize and published novel.

I also have pieces of life experiences which made me who I am now, some of which have to do with violence, war and dying- almost and only just. Some of which have to do with human kindness- a lot of it in the former context.

Therefore I very much believe in humans although at times I am very much annoyed with them.

I spend a significant amount of time rolling with other sweaty people on the floor, trying to break their limbs or choke them out. OK I admit: when you say it like that it does sound weird.

I support people climbing the authentic peaks of their lives, through helping them develop their own imposter feeling toolboxes or personal safety strategies.

I am still learning how to be proper.